How to have a better sex life not just better sex
First off, this is not a diagrammatic explanation of how to be more acrobatic or adventurous in bed. There will be no place “leg a” over “arm c” and do the hokey pokey description on having a better sex life. Here I attempt to outline characteristics in each of us that may lead to us being less confident with our lovers and mental walls we build that hold us back from experiencing the true exhilaration of free sex.
I suppose the very first thing that comes to mind is, what are we drawing a comparison from. What is better or rather what is worse? In my humble opinion I would say a bad sex life is one that is devoid of honesty or one approached with tactical precision. The best sex life one can have is when you are honest not only with your partners but with yourself. Honest about what turns you on, what you don’t like and about your personal boundaries.
So lets get right into it…